Under normal circumstances, as long as they are not particularly disgusted, most girls will not reject a boy directly, but will use some euphemistic language to refuse, such as stop the loss in time and you are a good person.
What do girls mean by stopping losses in time?
If you have been pursuing a girl for a while, the other party’s response can only be regarded as polite but not positive, and it will most likely be a rejection of you. Another situation is that a girl who was very positive before suddenly becomes cold, which means that after she has experienced enough information from you, she realizes that you are not her ideal type. If a girl has rejected your confession and goodwill before, and asked you to stop your losses in time, it means she really doesn't like your performance.
Advising you to stop losses in time is implying to you that even if you pay, you will not get corresponding returns, implying that you should stop here.
Of course, stopping the loss in time may not be the end of the world, which means rejection, and may also have the following meanings.
1. There is a psychological burden
If you chase a girl very closely and show your heart to her I took out my lungs and paid a lot for her. But in a girl's heart, you are not her ideal type, or not yet, and she cannot guarantee that she can give you the same response, which will cause a psychological burden. To say stop loss in time is to worry about hurting you and not getting an equal return on your investment.
When encountering this situation, you should first reduce the girl’s sense of pressure and stop giving away things or being courteous. What determines whether two people can get together is goodwill, not pure pleasing.
2. Feeling angry and angry
If you have just experienced a conflict, or your intentional or unintentional behavior has provoked When meeting a girl, she is obviously emotional. At this time, if the other party asks you to stop the loss in time, it is most likely to be angry.
When encountering this kind of situation, do not confront the girl emotionally, nor try to reason with her. You should give priority to her emotions, coax her first, and say something nice to make her happy. It's not too late to reason with the girl after she calms down.
