In fact, we don’t distinguish like and love at all in real life, and often confuse like and love. The depth of love is actually much deeper than like, and like can only be regarded as shallow love. Let's share what's the difference between girls' liking and love? Understand the depth of her feelings for you.
1. Love is more tolerant
There are two kinds of emotions in the world, one is called like, and the other is called love.
Like is seeing your advantages, love is tolerating your shortcomings.
Like is to change you in the way he thinks is good, love is to let you be yourself with peace of mind.
Like is living in the present with you, love is planning the future with you.
So if a girl likes you, she can be with you, but she may find fault with your shortcomings. If you don't change them, you may end up breaking up. And if a girl loves you, although she will be picky, she will actually be infinitely tolerant of you in her actions, so that you can go on compatible with each other.
2. Love demands repayment
Like is a kind of feeling, similar to that of fans, silently Give without expecting anything in return, you can feel unrequited love and still feel happy. But love is deeper and more complicated. In fact, love cares about returns. When your efforts are not rewarded, love will be very painful.
For example, between parents, children, and husbands, the relationship is actually about reciprocity. If they cannot respond emotionally and materially to each other, it will be very painful. Sometimes the same is true in career. A hobby can be very enjoyable and you pay a lot without asking for anything in return. But if you are really into a profession that you love, you also have to pay for it and care about the reward, otherwise it will be painful to love.
3. Love is possession
Like does not necessarily require possession, but love must possess. Like and Love is not a difference between shades, but two different types of feelings.
When you like someone, it is because something about the other person meets your spiritual needs; and when you love someone, you will want to give everything to the other person.
When you like someone, you will feel happy because of this love even if you don't get it; and when you love someone, you wish that the other person only has eyes for you.
This is not the difference between selfishness and selflessness, it is just two mentality.
Therefore, it is more difficult to love someone than to like someone, because when this word came out, it meant that you will be burdened with many things other than love.
Love is a declaration that fixes liking in an eternal sense. If a person seriously says "I love you", then the implicit meaning is "I will always love you"
So, if a girl likes you, she may only pay attention to you silently behind your back and like you silently, but she may also She gives up liking you just because she discovered one of your shortcomings; and if a girl loves you, she will want to let everyone in the world know her feelings for you. Even if you have shortcomings, she will accept them all. .
