Girls like warm men, and boys like obedient, gentle, and well-behaved girls. From this, you can easily find that the love that people expect tends to develop in the direction of self-pleasure. Affected by social civilization, boys yearn for power and girls yearn for respect and pampering. This is what love is - love always starts with self-deception. It starts and ends with bullying.
In ancient times, a woman was an object. For example, Xi Shi was given to King Wu Fu Chai, Diao Chan was given to Dong Zhuo, and Hammura The Code also stipulates that after taking possession of the body, the girl becomes the boy's property.
Inherited from the dregs of ancient culture, modern civilization still has ideas that devalue and objectify women. Of course, girls have suffered more or less from the malice of such ideas in society, so girls The boys I like tend to be gentle and gentlemanly boys.
Such boys are also called warm men, because warm men give girls the respect and care they deserve, and are chauvinistic. Maybe you know how to protect girls, but you don’t know how to respect girls. However, when warm men became an overly sought-after phenomenon, this consciousness developed towards feminism.
So the definition of a warm man becomes - a sunny man who is meticulous and considerate, can take care of his family, knows how to cook, knows how to take care of his partner, loves his family, and can give warmth to his family and friends.
In other words, in the eyes of some girls, a warm man must not only meet male standards, but also female standards, preferably An all-rounder who encompasses needlework, cooking, and hygiene. If a boy gives up himself and constantly pleases girls in order to pursue girls, the essence of such a warm boy is not a gentleman, but a so-called licking dog.
At this point, everyone can see that whether you are pursuing a boy or a girl, it is based on a process of having your needs met, and all girls need is respect and pampering. So chasing a girl starts with respecting her and pampering her.
