If you want to avoid encountering scumbags, you must first know how to identify them. But not all scumbags have their scumbags written on their faces. So how to identify scumbags? Here are 3 methods.
1. See what she does
The so-called scumbags are very familiar with men’s psychological weaknesses and desires. , you can provide the other party with a lot of what they want.
For example, a man’s vanity, face, etc.
Sometimes when we are greedy, we like to listen to good things, thinking that we have finally met someone who appreciates and understands us.
Even sometimes, the other person is regarded as a simple love novice.
Calm down at this time, don’t listen to what she says, watch what she does.
The reason is very simple. If you like a girl, if you tell her you love her ten thousand times during the day, but ignore her at night.
Do you think this is love?
In the same way, while she is telling you how great you are, she is constantly accepting your kindness and encouraging you to give to her.
You are so good, but she still doesn’t want to be with you. Does she feel that she is not worthy?
< h2>2. Listen to what others sayDo your homework, look at the attitude of the people around her towards her, and listen to the opinions of the people around her.
Look at the kind of friends she usually makes. At this time, we must not be carried away by the passion of the moment.
If you have the conditions, ask your female friends. Reality tells us that when women look at women, some intuitions are really accurate!
If you don’t have female friends, ask me OK.
When buying things on Taobao, you have to read reviews, especially when looking for a partner.
3. Don’t "jump past the level to fight monsters"
If you often feel doubtful and entangled about this relationship , things develop in a direction you can't predict, that's right.
Ordinary young women will not leave you with this feeling.
Your inability to understand her behavior and the various hints she gives you actually means that you and she are not at the same level, and they are trying to reduce the dimension.
Therefore, if we clearly know what we want, have our own standards and determination, and remain unchanged in response to changes, we can avoid getting hurt.
The same goes for love. There is no such thing as pie in the sky. When a relationship begins, think more about why the other person likes you, and then leave your time to someone who deserves it.
If you are unlucky and have been bitten by a "venomous snake" a few times.
Therefore, everyone must improve their ability to identify scum.
From her ordinary words and actions, we can get the amount of information we want, and then judge whether she is worthy of our love.
Otherwise, you will waste your time on people who are not worthy of it, and in the end you will get nothing.
We must work hard in the right direction, rather than moving further and further away from the right method.
