Although there are many boys and girls who choose to go on blind dates because they can’t find a partner, many people go on blind dates many times and go on blind dates with their own sincerity, but the blind dates are always unsuccessful. Do you know why this is? ? In addition to mismatched conditions and not seeing each other in the right eye, a more important reason is actually the difference in thinking between men and women. Let’s talk about it in detail below.
Why blind dates are always unsuccessful
In the eyes of girls, blind dates are actually about finding someone you like. When a boy falls in love, if a girl thinks that the boy she is dating is pretty good, she will give him a chance to pursue her. She will take the initiative to chat with the boy for a while, agree to his date, and cooperate with the boy's pursuit. Can she catch him? , it depends on the boy’s performance.
But from a boy’s perspective, a blind date can skip the process of chasing girls and go straight to get married. A blind date is about finding a wife, not a girlfriend. Therefore, boys want to make a quick decision, want to establish a relationship with girls as soon as possible, and even want to plan marriage impatiently, scaring girls away.
Therefore, in the process of blind dating between men and women, there will be a phenomenon where the difference in needs is too large. Girls want to find a boyfriend and talk slowly. They want to start as friends, slowly get to know each other, and slowly get to know each other. When feelings arise, boys want to start directly as boyfriend and girlfriend, and start to establish a relationship directly. This will lead to a situation like this:
Boys are very anxious. They have just known each other for a few days, and they keep talking. Invite girls out to meet. I want to hold hands, put my arms around my waist, kiss, and meet my parents. As for the girl, she is not happy. The girl only agreed to let you chase her, but did not agree to be your girlfriend. If you are so handsy, aren't you making the girl reject you? As a result, girls on blind dates begin to avoid boys, become indifferent to boys, or even get angry. As for boys, I am so good to you and I have sacrificed so much for you, even with my hand. He didn't even let her hold his hand, and the more he thought about it, the angrier he became, and finally gave up and stopped pursuing her.
So why is the success rate of blind dates so low now? Girls think boys are rude, and boys think girls are pretentious. Is this a low success rate? I also understand that many boys cannot control their own pace of dating and are busy introducing themselves to girls to confirm their relationship. In fact, the purpose of blind dates between boys and girls is different. Boys mostly go on blind dates to find a partner, while girls often want a sweet love. So if you want to have a high success rate in blind dates, you must learn to give girls the feeling of being in love.
