In the early stages of a relationship, two people may have endless topics to talk about, but as time goes by, the topics they talk about will naturally decrease. This is a problem that almost all couples will encounter. Then What should you do if you have nothing to talk about when you are in love?
1. Talk more gossip
In fact, no matter who you spend time with, you will feel like you have nothing to say. It’s time to talk. However, you might as well throw in some nonsense or just say a few words of welcome. Nonsense is the beginning of interpersonal communication. It starts with small talk, whether there was a traffic jam when you came, how long it took you to come, nonsense like the weather, etc. Don't look for topics, try to create an atmosphere that you are old friends. . Find topics based on what you are good at. For example, you know that such-and-such a restaurant is good, there is a fun place, and something happened recently can become your topic.
2. Cultivate common interests
How to put it? I want your communication to be colorful, like movies, literature, music, food, collections... If you both love these If so, then we can talk about it.
3. Travel and share the moments of travel
With the acceleration of the pace of life and the growth of age , the pressure of young people is increasing, and traveling to reduce stress has become a hot topic. Chatting about the places each other has been and the interesting things that happened during the trip can help you understand the other person’s attitude towards life and some of her Values, which are important for improving mutual understanding. In addition, you can also talk about some career topics, understand her attitude towards work, talk about your plans for future life, and let her know that you are a very motivated and responsible person, which is very important.
4. Learn to be a humorous person
Maybe you don’t know how to tell jokes or stories in your daily life, but you insist on sending some interesting jokes to the person you like. , over time, you will find that you can also tell some jokes. In fact, when I chat with many women, they all mention that they like their boyfriends to send them joke messages. Watch more and learn more classic chat conversations, and use more love skills (see my experience) during daily chats to make her think you are an interesting person.
5. Talk about each other’s past experiences
If that’s not possible, you can also talk about each other’s past. Experience, some places you have been to, some people you have met, some things you have experienced, but remember not to talk about serious issues, try not to make too many comments about some people or things, and be guided by positive energy and shape yourself. high value image. Remember: the entire chat process should be enjoyable!
In the early stages of a relationship, both parties have a lot of interests.They have strong curiosity and want to know everything about each other, so they have many topics to talk about. When everything that needed to be known was known and everything that needed to be understood was understood, the original curiosity of the two people was gone. At this time, two people can add some common experiences. With the same or different feelings about the same thing, there will naturally be topics to talk about.
