When you are in love, you will inevitably receive gifts from your partner. These things are usually disposed of after a breakup, so what does it mean if your girlfriend still keeps your ex’s things?
1. The items are just commemorations
Since the girl has been with her ex Breaking up and choosing to be with you means that the girl gave up on him and chose you. Why do you have to compete with someone who has already been eliminated? Moreover, gifts also have their own special meaning: for example, If a deceased elder who was very kind to you left something to you... would you keep it or throw it away? And if a girl keeps a gift from her ex, maybe it's just a commemoration of her youth and...
2. Gifts are not convenient to return
There are many kinds of gifts, and some gifts are easy to handle. It can also be returned, but some gifts may not be easy to do due to their special nature. For example, you can throw away the clothes and shoes given by your ex, but if they are hairstyles, tattoos, or personal items that cannot be discarded, it is not convenient to return them. You can check to see what your girlfriend keeps that was given by her ex so that it is inconvenient to throw it away or return it. And to say the least, no matter whether it is convenient to return it or not, this is your girlfriend's personal belongings, and a generous man will not care about these things.
3. Continue using according to the principle of no waste
I once asked a girl a question: "What should you do with the gifts your ex-boyfriend gave you after a breakup? This is how the girl answered me : I have been wearing the scarf given to me by my ex-boyfriend for more than two years, and I feel comfortable using it as a baby warmer. Why bother with things? It’s such a waste to throw it away, but you can still use it if you keep it. If you give it to yourself, it is your own thing. Why impose a gift from your ex-boyfriend, which will only increase worries? Also, be stricter and don’t always say it was a gift from your ex-boyfriend. In the eyes of men, is this a declaration of war and showing off?"
4. Forgot that it was a gift from your ex-boyfriend
Regardless of whether boys believe this reason or not, there are indeed girls who say this. If you love her, trust her, don't make malicious assumptions about others, or don't make assumptions about others, and don't let others follow your path to act~ Since you are together, you can choose to believe it. You can tell her: I like you very much. It is not impossible for you to keep these things, but I want to give you a new life and future. I don’t want you to see them and be nostalgic for the past, and even more afraid of losing them. you. If you don't want to throw it away and let me keep it for you, or store it in storage (after all, people are nostalgic), I believe I will give you something better.
Of course, you should also pay attention to one thing: will your girlfriend keep the ex-boyfriend as a gift because she can't forget her old relationship? Things come back to me from time to time, and you are at best a substitute.This situation is even worse. How to judge? See if she cares about you, whether she cares about you more than the things her ex-boyfriend gave her, or whether she always talks about her ex-boyfriend.
