Greasiness has nothing to do with appearance or age. Although some men are no longer as good as middle-aged, they are still called handsome uncles by girls, while some men, although still young, are already called middle-aged greasy men by girls. Today Let me share with you the three major characteristics of middle-aged greasy men in the eyes of some girls, and see how many of them you pick out.
1. Colorful eyes
Everyone has the love of beauty. Everyone wants to appreciate a person who is pleasing to the eye.
However, it’s almost enough to just look at them, don’t stare at them without blinking.
Whether it is deliberate or instinctive, you must learn to exercise restraint. Don’t always make yourself look like a hungry wolf that has not eaten meat for 20 or 30 years. How scary.
Not only will it embarrass your peers, but it will also make the people you admire feel uncomfortable. More importantly, both of you will look down on you because of it.
Not only that, staring for a long time can compress nerves and arteries, causing dry eyes and dizziness.
If you really can’t help it, wear sunglasses before going out to take a peek.
2. Love to dress up X
It is understandable that people are more willing to pursue high-value things.
However, relationships should be realistic and there is really no need to brag to please the other person.
Girls are naturally sensitive. The first second you show off, they will probably see through it.
Not only will this not increase your value, but it will knock you over with a stick, causing the other party to blacklist you.
The correct approach is that you have to guide the other person's vanity and make the other person have the urge to show off to you. In this way, the relationship can be brought closer invisibly with words and compliments.
Don’t pretend just for the sake of pretending, especially if you haven’t caught up yet.
3. No sense of proportion
Some friends make dirty jokes with them as soon as they get to know each other, or try to make inappropriate comments. Behavior that goes beyond the current relationship.
When you first meet a girl, you try to tell dirty jokes, hold hands, and wink blindly?
Maybe you find this kind of behavior very attractive, but when the other person has not even the slightest impression of you, , all these behaviors will make her feel disgusted and think you are a gangster.
The reason why this happens is because the need you exposed is too strong.
For example, on your first official date, you revealed sexual hints in your communication. The first time you meet someone, you want to have physical contact with them.
This will make the other party very disgusted.
I know you want to express your feelings to girls quickly, butMost girls pay more attention to whether you are sincere and respectful in the early stage.
Some friends may ask, how can we talk so much without being greasy and make the other person feel comfortable?
First, don’t let yourself think that you are pursuing her.
Second, don’t let the other person think you are pursuing her.
