In relationships, it does not mean that if you are good to a person, she will like you. Sometimes, taking the initiative to please and lick someone will put more pressure on girls. Let me talk to you today, why doesn’t a girl accept a boy being nice to her? The better you treat her, the less likely you are to pursue her. Here are all the girls’ sincere words.
Why don’t girls accept boys being nice to her?
If you are too nice to a girl from the beginning, she may not accept it. Here are the reasons:
First, I feel that your purpose is too strong
Generally, boys who only want to please girls will express their desire for girls very strongly. Such purposeful behavior Come closer, do you think girls can avoid guarding you? She didn't trust you from the beginning, so how could you possibly pursue her? So, if you are chasing a girl and reveal your neediness because of your over-pleasing, and you don’t know what to do to change the girl’s opinion of you, then you can stop your pursuit first and treat the girl as Just treat it like a normal friend.
Second, I think you are cheap and useless
If you take the initiative to please girls every day, it will lead to you She has no attraction in her heart. Every time she kneels down and licks her, her worth will be lowered. Under unequal conditions, it is difficult to chase the girl she likes. In every girl's heart, there is Like a fairy tale, although you cannot expect your significant other to be a Prince Charming, you must at least know how to lead yourself. So your kneeling and licking will only make them feel that only boys with poor abilities will choose to please in order to win sympathy when they have no other choice. This kind of love itself is a kind of pathology. How could she do it? Accept it?
Third, I think you are annoying and boring
Boys who take the initiative to please girls have a common problem, that I just feel very scared. If I don’t contact the girl, the girl will forget about me. In fact, you can rest assured about this. Although people's memory is limited, if you don't contact them for a day or two, they will still remember you, but you will remember them every day. Persistence will make girls think you are very annoying, especially if you cannot provide some interesting topics every time they chat, but it will annoy you more. When they can't bear it anymore, they will block you, so you want to make girls pay attention to you. Just trying to please won't work. Only when you show yourself to be very precious and popular will she cherish you twice as much.
Finally, I hope that boys who are kneeling and licking girls, or want to gain love by being nice to girls and kneeling and licking girls, please stop your steps quickly.
