Because introverted boys don’t like to deal with people, they lack experience in getting along with girls, let alone pursuing girls. However, introverted boys actually also look forward to love, but it’s just because of their introverted personality that they are difficult to please. Girls are happy. Let me introduce to you the tricks for introverted boys to pursue girls. Introverted boys can still pursue girls.
1. Adjust your mentality
In fact, most introverted boys have an inferiority complex, so before you decide to pursue a girl, you must adjust your inferiority complex. If you think you are not good here or there, and think that a boy like me, will any girl like me? If you look down on yourself, will any girl like you?
So how to adjust your inferiority complex? In fact, it is to regularly exercise your positive thinking, communicate more with others, whether men or women, and when talking to others, think about it before speaking, and develop good habits. In short, if introverted boys want to fall in love, the first step is to abandon their inferiority complex and say that they can do it. It’s not that they can’t fall in love, even introverts can fall in love.
2. Clear goals
In fact, falling in love is like our studies, we must first have a clear goal , only then will there be pursuit and space for development. For example: If you want your semester average score to be above 90 points in each subject, this is your goal, the object you are pursuing, and the direction of your development. So chasing a girl is no exception. To chase her, you have to set a goal. Once the goal is clear, you will think about how to chase her and generate a series of pursuit ideas. This is when you start to develop.
3. Find an excuse to take the initiative
Now that you have locked in the girl you like, then find an excuse to take the initiative Approach her, remember, at this time you need to be ambitious, graceful, and as steady as a rock when you approach her. Let her have a good impression of you. Girls will interact with you out of politeness no matter whether they like someone or not. In this opportunity, you should find ways to interact with girls more so that she can have more impressions of you. learn.
4. Take the initiative to care about girls
Everyone is sad, painful, and troubled because of something. What they long for most is someone to comfort and care for them. At this time, if someone takes the initiative to comfort you and care about them, you will feel that he is really good. When you are sad and lost, only he understands you best and understands your heart. Afterwards, when you recall every time you were sad and lost, When you feel depressed, he will always be the one who comforts you and cares about you. Otherwise, you will suddenly miss him very much and want him to be your boyfriend. So when a person is sad or lost, receiving comfort and care from someoneWhen we are concerned, we will have a deep impression on this person and mistake comfort and concern for love.
In fact, introverted boys also have their own ways of expressing love, but you need to take the first step bravely, and wait until you realize that you are chasing girls. When it's not as difficult as you think, you're not far away from successfully wooing a girl.
