To be honest, when most girls judge whether a boy is suitable as a boyfriend, it’s not just appearance and money, character is also a very important reference standard. So what qualities does a girl’s ideal boyfriend have?
What is the standard for a girl’s ideal boyfriend?
1. A good temper that does not make you angry
A boy who does not lose his temper easily when things happen will give It gives a feeling of maturity, stability and trustworthiness.
After all, people’s emotions can easily affect each other. Who wants to live in dire straits all day long? Most of all, I hope the people around me are gentle.
If a girl is a bit impatient, she would prefer to be with a gentle person. She also wants someone who can calm her temper.
Of course, it doesn’t mean that you can’t be sad or angry or express your thoughts, but it does mean that you won’t vent your emotions to others casually and know how to resolve them in a reasonable way. Even if they quarrel, they won't say unpleasant words.
2. Have your own shining points
For example, good grades and strong work ability. Or you can play guitar well, play basketball well, write articles well, tell jokes well, even if you can repair computers well...
In short, what you have in you is These shining points, if you know how to show them, may make girls shine.
Except for a few money-worshiping girls, most girls are really not that materialistic. Falling in love with someone is sometimes very simple. It's your shining point that makes her admire you.
Therefore, in the process of pursuing girls, it is important to learn to show your shining points.
3. Ability to express ideas and guide emotions
Expression and communication are also absolute bonus points. After all, relationships between people are built through communication.
Girls need spiritual resonance very much and need you to understand her. Of course communication is indispensable.
Let me point it out again. Some people are very afraid of girls having emotions. The most a girl can do when she has emotions is "stop being angry, stop crying."
You said that people’s emotions are there, why don’t you let them vent them out.
Simply guide her to speak out as much as she wants. Cry if you want. Just cry with her and just nod and hand the paper.
In short, if you can express your own thoughts and guide others' emotions, others will feel comfortable getting along with you.
4. Have your own principles and bottom lineh3>
A person who has principles and a bottom line is often more likely to be respected by others.
What is the bottom line? For example, don’t lie to others, do what you should, and do what you promise. Girls will feel that such a person is very reliable.
For another example, I can help you do things, but only if it is within my ability. If it is beyond my ability, I’m sorry, but I can’t do it.
On the contrary, people will think that you are quite measured.
