In a relationship, if your girlfriend wants to be playful and your boyfriend wants to be more serious, it can easily lead to a cold war. Many boys don’t know what to do when they encounter a cold war. They either bow their heads and admit their mistakes to their girlfriends, or scold their girlfriends for a while. These solutions obviously only represent how the next cold war between you and your girlfriend will end! With your girlfriend What to do in a cold war? Boys with high emotional intelligence are trained to deal with it this way.
1. Pay attention to your girlfriend’s emotions
During the cold war, don’t be afraid of doing something wrong. In fact, the last thing a girlfriend wants to expect is that her boyfriend does nothing, or even doesn’t care...
Girls are emotional and easily affected by emotions. If you are a boyfriend and don’t take care of him, Not paying attention to your girlfriend's emotions may even make your girlfriend want to leave you!
Women are not meant to understand, but to love. ——Oscar Wilde
When you have a cold war with your girlfriend, don’t do nothing, but try to coax her, care about her, and make her happy. Only when you care more about her emotions will she truly feel safe. feel.
2. Boys should correct their attitudes
Some "macho" boys encounter If you have a cold war with your girlfriend, you will scold her for being unreasonable and unreasonable, and even start to criticize your girlfriend in various ways...
Some boys who are "dog-licking" will give up when they encounter a cold war with their girlfriends. , spoiled, doted on, and kept a low profile. In the end, he pampered his girlfriend into a mistress and humbled himself into a tool.
When you and your girlfriend are having a cold war, your attitude must be proactive and positive (when both of you have almost calmed down), analyze the reasons for the cold war, and first talk about your shortcomings. , and then point out your girlfriend's mistakes. Although your girlfriend has made mistakes, you must show tolerance and understanding, let your girlfriend feel that you love her, and then show your kindness to your girlfriend and restore the loving mode.
3. Admit each other’s mistakes
When you have a cold war with your girlfriend, you must not be serious, but Return to a calm, rational mood.
Guide her to realize her mistakes, let each other accept each other honestly, tolerate and understand each other.
Now, both people will be willing to get back on their old terms and end the cold war.
