When a girl chases after me, I am indifferent and feel that I have no feelings for this girl, but when the other person gradually becomes cold, I start to become anxious. What should I do in this situation?
1. The reason why the girl who is chasing me suddenly becomes cold.
If you two chat, she will feel that you are interested in the girl. , girls will use all kinds of word-picking in chats, but if girls take the initiative to find topics to talk to you for a long time, girls will also get tired, and no one will keep waiting for someone who doesn’t respond. Dilly-dallying without making any progress will make a girl feel like she is being hung up. The longer this goes on, the more tired she becomes and the less worthy she feels of this person. She once liked you, but was hurt by your hot and cold indifference. Convince yourself to give up. If you like her, then be more proactive with her and express your feelings to her.
There is another situation where a girl has another suitor and is already planning to accept him, but you, she, have fallen in love with you. The boys she chased became a thing of the past in her relationship. Even if you still like her at this time, you should first see if she is happy in her current state and whether your appearance will disturb her peaceful life. If it will, I suggest you wait and see first!
2. Determine whether you really like the other person
If you really like her, go to her better friends and ask her if she is single now, etc. If there are no force majeure factors, (if the girl is not completely On the premise of losing love for you) Try to find topics you like, that is, work hard to tease her! There may be a chance, but the point is that you have to really like her before pursuing her!
If you just enjoy the feeling of having a girl chasing after you, you will be a little bit disappointed once that cute girl who actively pesters you suddenly stops paying attention to you, right? What's wrong with not being pretty enough? Cute, I have nothing in common with you, you are just a nerd, how can you be liked... If you really like her, you won't think so much. If this is the case, I would like to advise you to let go of the girl who once pursued you, and don't bother her again at this time. Even if you chase her back at this time, you won't last long, not because she doesn't really like you, but because you don't really like her.
Finally, if boys don’t want the girl they get to just fly away, or the girl they chase will ignore you, the most important thing is to understand your own heart from the beginning and don’t squander the girl’s love for you. , otherwise even if you regret it, it may be too late.
