Some people say that "women who fall in love usually have zero IQ." In fact, the same goes for men who fall in love. Love is ideal, but reality is skinny. Therefore, although many boys long for love, they encounter Love will start to shrink again, and I will only dare to secretly fall in love in my heart, lie to myself that this girl is a bad woman, and lie to the girl that I don't like her.
Characteristics of two people having a crush on each other
1. Two people who have a crush on each other will be jealous of each other. See You will feel uncomfortable when you see the other person chatting with the opposite sex, let alone seeing the other person talking and laughing with the opposite sex. This is all because you care too much about the other person's psychology.
2. Two people who have a crush on each other will secretly look at each other. In fact, every time they peek, the other person is also peeking at you. It’s just that they both see each other so much that they don’t have these worries. and hesitation, only when the two people looked at each other did they realize the embarrassment and tension.
3. Although people who have a crush on each other like each other very much, they are afraid that the other person will know that they like each other, so they can't help but get close to each other every time. , will always be deliberately concealed by oneself.
4. Although people who have a crush on each other have been in love for a long time, they are unwilling to take action, so they lie to themselves that the idea is just a whim, and they are not really in love with each other. Dare to act rashly.
5. People who have a crush on each other have a strong possessive desire for each other and want to make the other person their exclusive lover, but are afraid to say it out and are afraid of the other person's rejection.
Why do people with a crush deceive themselves
Many people will deceive themselves when they have a crush. Its essence is to avoid pain - to confess the pain of failure!
Seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and do it at any time. Perhaps the motivation behind human behavior, which seems irrational, is actually to avoid greater pain and harm.
Although people who have a secret love do not get love, they enjoy the pleasure brought by the secret love and at the same time avoid the harm caused by failure to express love. This is actually people's best choice for relationships.
However, those who dare not try and fail will ultimately be difficult to succeed, and the same is true in love.
Don′t fear failure…in great attempts it is glorious even to fail.——Bruce Lee
