I believe that when most men get along with women, the ultimate goal is to embrace a beautiful woman, not to have another friend. And if you want to do this, you must learn to be a person who understands her. So what exactly should you do to understand a woman's heart?
To understand a girl, you must first understand the true meaning of her words. For example, when a girl says I’m here to be my aunt, you don’t just say drink more hot water, you say it would be nice if I was by your side. I will help you warm your belly and then coax her.
Then why do you say this? Because a girl will not tell everyone that she is pregnant. She will only tell the boy she is willing to tell that she is pregnant.
A girl knows to drink hot water and knows that it works, but the purpose of her talking to you is not to ask you to tell her what to do. What she needs at this moment is comfort and pampering, not a solution.
I hope that the majority of male compatriots will keep this in mind. Unless you can really send brown sugar water and warm baby to her downstairs, otherwise, don’t propose any solutions.
When a girl scolds or complains about something, you don’t want to propose a solution, you have to follow her. Scold and complain together.
She said that her boss always asked her to get off work overtime for free. What you are trying to say is not that bosses are like this, so it would be better if you finish your work earlier and get off work earlier.
What you want to say is that your boss has gone too far. Then the girl said yes xxxx, listened to her complain, and then complained together.
Friends can take sides without thinking, but in order to get the girl you like, how about you first put away your self-righteous views?
If you understand girls, you should still complain when girls complain. When something in this world bullies her, you have to resist the whole world for her. After resisting, look into her eyes affectionately and tell her not to do this again next time. This is called understanding girls.
Girls will be attracted to such boys and will break all their mate selection standards for such boys.
Including some brothers who are in long-distance relationships with girls, when a girl says we don’t care about her, the boys who don’t understand women don’t know what to do. And what does a boy who understands women look like?
He will say, "Baby, although I have been very busy recently when the project started, I still take the time to see you. If you are not here, I will be gone." Motivation. "
Then you said something like this. What a sensible girl wants at this time is not that you really go over. What she wants is your attitude that you care about her and care about her.
So when you show this attitude, she won’t really let you go.
