When chasing girls, it seems that boys pay the bill has become an unspoken rule. However, some boys feel that such behavior can easily turn into dog-licking, so they discuss the AA system with girls. Is it really appropriate to chase girls with AA? ?
When chasing girls, you must show your sincerity, especially on the first date. A date does not cost much. There is absolutely no need to ask for money. Paying for a boy is very conducive to gaining the favor of girls. But if you have known each other for a while, or even have a good relationship, then you can discuss AA with the girl.
There is another situation, which is blind date. In this case, AA system is actually the best. It is said that eating people is soft-mouthed, and taking people short-handed, a small meal is also a favor. When we first met, the boy took the initiative to pay the bill out of affection, and the AA system was his duty. If a guy pays the bill, a girl will owe you a favor. But if she doesn't like you, this favor is of no use. So it’s best not to owe each other anything.
In fact, the purpose of meeting for dinner is to judge what kind of person each other is through the other person's words and deeds. If you feel that she is not suitable and do not want to continue the development, then it is okay for everyone to pay their own way. But if you feel good about her and she has a good impression of you, it is best to take the initiative to pay for it. If she chooses AA, then respect her choice, but when it comes to girls you like, it's best to take the initiative.
Everyone says that men and women are equal, and girls need to be financially independent, so it is even more important to have an AA system, which shows that you respect her. If a girl takes the initiative, it means she is a good girl. If a girl rejects you because you proposed AA, then there is no need to have a close relationship. Maybe she just likes your money.
Many girls will feel that the boy who asks her to pay cannot accept it because he is too stingy. But we are not rich, handsome, and we take the initiative to foot the bill every time we date a girl. I believe it is also a heavy burden on you. Don't try to make a fool of yourself, just raise it if it doesn't work.
Especially when you meet a girl who only orders food and does not cultivate feelings, you must be AA. Because her purpose of meeting you may be to have a casual meal and drink, and she is not sincerely looking for a partner. And if a girl really likes you, she won't mind having sex with you.
Of course, taking the initiative to pay the bill will leave a good impression on girls, but AA will make girls feel stingy to a certain extent. If you want to solve this problem better, you can choose a more cost-effective restaurant for a date that you can afford, or ask the girl in advance whether she accepts AA.
