Don’t underestimate Aries, this is the first sign of the zodiac.
Many people will have some inherent impressions of Aries, such as three-minute heat, impatience, impatience, simplicity, and directness.
Those are very external and superficial manifestations of Aries, but the heart of Aries is often not as simple as it appears.
They have strong plans and purposes for the things they care about, and they will weigh them very clearly in their hearts, especially feelings. .
Whether he is an Aries man or an Aries woman, whether he likes you or not will be completely reflected in his behavior and eyes.
Similarly, if he doesn't like you anymore, you will feel it very clearly.
Aries says that breaking up is not terrible, the key depends on what kind of breakup state he is in.
Recognize the different breakup states of Aries
Passionate breakup (fake)
Sometimes they say that breakup is actually a "passionate breakup".
When he got emotional, he was so angry that he didn’t know what to do. It's really ugly to vent your emotions and then turn around and leave.
What should Aries lovers do when encountering this situation?
Just wait and do nothing.
Yes, you read that right, because if Aries breaks up in this state, they will regret it within three days at most.
He will go through such a psychological process:
------I am so angry! How could I be with such a person?
----Hmph, I want to play with myself and ignore him
----Hey, am I with One where he talks a little too much?
----That little thing will never break up
-----Oh, he didn’t contact me, see it’s because I went too far
----I miss him so much! He is really nice to me usually, why am I so impulsive!
After this series of psychological processes are over, he may take the initiative to come to you. When he comes to you, pay attention to give him a step at the right time. Relationships will be repaired.
Break up calmly (authenticity)
If you see an Aries who is as calm as Taiyi after a conflict, I will tell you to communicate your problems rationally and then tell you Your decision to break up is tantamount to receiving a resignation letter from an Aries lover.
He is really here.
The anger of Aries is to lose temper, and the calmness of Aries is to leave.
When you see a calm Aries, you should realize that you are about to start preparing for recovery.
How to recover an Aries who wants to break up
Recovery is a battle, and only by knowing yourself and the enemy can you win. Through years of experience, I have helped you figure out the fate of Aries Gate. Now you just need to understand itsThe truth is enough.
Taboos in rescuing Aries
Actively seeking low-key rescue
Aries, whether it is an Aries man or an Aries woman, has a primitive and innate feeling inside. Conquer the desire bones. They don't like to actively pursue their lovers. Even if they fall in love after being pursued, they will feel that something is missing in their hearts.
If you take the initiative to win him back in a low-key manner, it will only make him more annoying, lose interest in you, and don't want to see you at all.
Hunters are not interested in free prey.
Unchanging
Aries is a mutable fire sign, and mutable signs don’t like people and things that remain the same.
Why does Aries make people feel passionate for three minutes? Because they always like things that can bring them a sense of freshness, but after a long time and getting familiar with them, they find that these people and things are the same without any new changes, so they run away.
So, if he breaks up with you, you will still stand still, and he will not even be interested in looking back at you.
Force
Aries people prefer to take the initiative on their own and hate being led by others.
You can be equals, but if you forcefully order, impose, and restrict him, he can tolerate it when he likes you, but you have broken up and you have to force him to look back, and you will be permanently attracted by the other person. Blacklisted.
If the taboos are not violated, we will be one step closer to success.
After breaking up, do you want to stir up Aries' passion for you again? The editor has prepared several effective methods for you~
Special medicine to save Aries
Aries will always be a curious baby
From birth to burial, the initial zodiac sign The energy given by Aries to be curious about new things never goes out.
They are always attracted to things they have never seen or understood, just like cats.
So, after breaking up, you don’t have to actively ask him to come back. As long as you do something that confuses him, he will immediately come to you with curiosity.
For example: < /p>
After he broke up, you replied: OK. Then he disappeared, again ignoring him.
Post it on Moments and live as you wish.
Another example:
You can often post words in your circle of friends that he doesn’t understand, and then post a picture of your back showing you completely changing your dressing style.
In short, make him as ignorant as possible. During the disconnection period, you can send him any message and then withdraw it immediately. If he asks you what's wrong, you won't reply.
At this time, a bunch of little question marks will pop up in his mind. Unconsciously, his attention has been completely attracted to you.
Awaken the hunter instinct of Aries
We awakened it in the previous stepAfter quelling his curiosity, it's time to awaken his chasing instinct.
What does catching up mean? If he chases you, you can't let him touch you, that's a chase.
So, when he starts to ask you actively because his curiosity about you has increased, you can't feel good about him immediately, and you can't reply to him too quickly.
In the awakening stage of hunter instinct, remember four elements:
The content of your reply will always be less than him.
The reply speed is always slower than him.
Continuously create suspense for him.
After being busy, I went to bed and went to play.
In short, keep using delayed gratification and awakening curiosity with him so that he can continue to invest energy in you and maintain his attention.
Use your changes to make him want to stop.
If you have successfully done the above two points, then he should already want to take the initiative to date you.
Never agree to just one date.
After one or two declines, he appeared in front of him in a completely new state.
After that, you have to deliberately create the feeling that you are different from before.
For example, he wants to treat you to steak because he remembers that you used to like steak.
At this time, you can deliberately say: "Steak, because of some things, I don't like steak now."
He will definitely ask you curiously why, you can deliberately say Tsukuru smiled mysteriously and said I will tell you when the time comes.
Let him feel that "you made some changes that he didn't understand when he didn't know it."
Gradually update his impression of you, and then in his eyes, the you who wants to break up and is full of shortcomings has been replaced by the you who makes him full of curiosity and full of changes.
The novelty of talking about a different relationship with the same person again will strongly stimulate the nerves of Aries. If this step is successful, Aries will be easily redeemed.
Recovery and change cannot rely entirely on acting, otherwise Aries will either leave or leave at that time.
To re-attract a person, real change from the inside out is essential. So, you can occasionally take shortcuts, but taking shortcuts is definitely not a long-term solution.
