Many boys may have encountered such a problem. You like a girl very much and are actively pursuing her, but the girl tells you that we should just be friends! Girls, what does this mean? When a girl says she wants to be friends, is she rejecting her? How should I get along with girls after they say they are friends?
1. Girls say that being friends means rejection
Sometimes girls may simply regard boys as friends, so it doesn’t matter if they have a pleasant chat. However, if the girls get along with each other in the subsequent After discovering the details of the boy's careful thoughts, she may take the boy's face into consideration and feel embarrassed to directly reject the boy's advances, so the girl may say intentionally or unintentionally: "It's really good to have a friend like you." Let’s just be friends!”
In fact, the girl’s idea is very simple. She doesn’t like this boy, and she doesn’t want to hurt him, so she chooses a tactful way to tell the boy that we are not suitable as a couple. .
Boys should not feel embarrassed in this situation. Girls say they should be friends, just like girls are friends. Get along, interact with each other in normal space, joke more, don't have too much hope for her to say that she likes you, wait until you confess your love again and then she accepts you, it may be that she has experienced other people's bad things and discovered your good things, and then she will let you go. You, your feelings will fade away as time goes by.
2. Girls say they want to be friends because they treat you as a backup.
Some girls say they want to be friends, which means they are rejecting boys, but in fact they are still getting along with them. There was no distance between them during the process, and they still accepted the boy's kindness. It's obvious that girls use you as a backup under the guise of being friends. And the good thing about her is that she can advance and retreat, but also suffer. When a girl meets someone she likes one day, she can take steps to flirt with him without having to worry about others condemning her view of love from a moral standpoint. When you catch a "stinky man" and dump her one day, maybe you can feel the joy of borrowing her shoulder.
3. Girls say that being friends is a test
Some girls don’t like to establish a relationship too quickly. This kind of girl is more cautious in choosing a boyfriend and needs to spend a lot of time testing it. Only when the girl thinks it's okay will she agree to you being her boyfriend. As long as such a girl doesn't explicitly say she doesn't want to, or doesn't explicitly reject you and say it's impossible for you, then you still have hope of pursuing her. And since such a cautious girl said she would be friends with you, at least she has a good impression of you, but she is not sure yet and does not know whether you two are suitable for a relationship. Girls may feel that if they rashly get together with you, they will be irresponsible to themselves and unfair to you, and if they find it inappropriate by then, they may not even be friends anymore.
So in this case, if a girl says that we want to be friends, then we should really start with her as friends. It means that she has not thought about accepting you yet, and she is also considering it. Take a look. If you are really suitable together, then you should give her enough time to get to know you, and let time decide whether she is suitable.
