Originally, you thought it would be time to confirm the relationship after you have been with the girl for so long, and the girl’s feedback is also very good, so you tried to confess your love to the girl. Unexpectedly, the girl neither accepted nor refused, but said that this was too soon! So do you know what girls mean when they say this? Is it too fast for a girl to confess her love? How should I reply? The editor will explain it to you below.
What do girls mean when they say it’s too fast?
It is true that most girls are insecure in relationships, and they will occasionally test the boy they like to see if the boy is reliable. It’s also possible that the girl said that she spoke too quickly and she just said it casually. She didn’t know what she was thinking in her heart. She just wanted to see what you thought. So you can’t answer casually at this time, otherwise there may be no results between you. . It's like there are some rubbish tests. For example, my aunt and I both fell into the water. Who do you save? As for this kind of question, you can answer it in a naughty way.
How do you respond when a girl confesses that she is too fast?
1. "People in this world come and go in a hurry. How many people are willing to pretend to be open to you seriously, and even fewer can express their feelings to you? There is no speed, only depth, so how long will it take for you to verify this depth? ”
Then if the brother is more artistic, he can openly express his sincerity from this paragraph, and at the same time let the girl give a response. How long does it take to pursue the relationship to upgrade? You can't let people hang on you all the time, right? wrong? Wouldn't it be better if girls could throw out the timeline? Will she be able to accept you by that time? When the time comes, try to confirm the relationship and see if the girl will still push back.
2. "Are you talking about the speed of emotion or the speed of time? My feelings for you have always been the same. Nothing has changed, I think there is no time limit when you love the right person. What do you still mind?”
If the brothers are more straightforward, you can answer like the above. So what’s the subtext here? Ask the girl to tell you the reason why she still doesn't agree after you have been chasing her for so long. If the girl is a scumbag, please continue to make up the excuse. If the girl really doesn't dare to believe in feelings because of some previous experiences, then give her a little more time; if the girl is vague and still wants you to continue to pay, then you can stop the loss in time.
In short, when you tell a girl that you are too fast, you must answer her seriously, because the girl is not just talking, she is also thinking carefully and wants to know whether you really It is worth entrusting her with her life.