Sometimes I feel that I have developed a good relationship with a girl, but I have never confirmed the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend. I am secretly anxious and afraid of pushing the girl too hard and causing her disgust. How can I confirm the natural relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend? What about a little? And sometimes confession is not the only way to confirm a relationship. It is of course best to let it take its own course and confirm a relationship with a girl.
1. Make more contacts and find opportunities to confess your love.
Many people think that confession means the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend is confirmed. In fact, this is not the case. Confession is sometimes the beginning of a romantic relationship, and sometimes it is also the death knell of an ambiguous relationship. Before establishing a relationship, there is usually an invisible progress bar. Both men and women should have a feeling in their hearts and evaluate each other's performance and reactions, such as the frequency of daily chats, how many times they have eaten together and watched movies, and whether the other party is not disgusted when there is a little physical contact, just You can find opportunities appropriately to increase the chances of contact, and then find opportunities to express your feelings.
@mixhahahajiar: We met on a blind date. At that time, my family just sent me WeChat and I had to do all the flirting on my own. . She had just bought a new car at that time, but her driving skills were impressive, so I took her to a deserted place to practice driving in the name of learning to drive. In fact, after nearly half a month of contact, everyone has developed a good impression of each other, and it's just a matter of breaking through the layer of paper. At that time, she was very scared when practicing driving (everyone is afraid of practicing on a new car!) I grabbed her hand, but her hand was ice cold. . I called her "fool". She suddenly froze, then slowly turned her head to look at me, with tears streaming down her face.
She said: "Can you please stop calling me a fool?"
When I saw this, I hugged her immediately, and she didn't resist.
I said: "Be my girlfriend and let me protect you..." I said some love words, but I forgot about them. Anyway, it was just a confession.
She didn't answer me, so I asked me: "Will you like other girls, will you abandon me?"
I said, no.
This is probably when we are officially together.
Later, she told me that she had been cheated on by a scumbag. She was a little afraid of falling in love and was afraid of getting hurt, so she stopped dating after graduating from college. I actually felt sorry for her when she had this experience. Of course, she and I are very good now.
2. Don’t confess your feelings right away
Some people think that they can seize the opportunity by confessing their feelings right away. , but love is not about occupying parking spaces and seats. If you forcefully speed up the progress bar, the effect may be counterproductive. Some people confess their love first, only to find that they are not too happy to get along with each other, and it would be embarrassing to regret it later. Therefore, many people now fall in love without any problems after two or three months, that is, they are anxious to confess their love and establish a relationship, but as a result, problems occur when they get along. Problem cannot bereconcile.
Therefore, before a boyfriend or girlfriend confirms a relationship, don’t confess your love right away. Everyone should be more patient, have more contact, and discover what really attracts you about the other person when you get along. After good interaction, you will find that the love relationship will also come naturally.
