Confession has never been something with a high success rate, so we have always recommended not to confess when chasing girls. However, some boys still can’t help but confess their feelings when chasing girls, and end up failing because they don’t want to. Give up, and then you can’t even make friends with a set of tricks. What should you do if your confession fails?
1. What to do if your confession fails
Many times, a boy feels that he has a good relationship with a girl, so he chooses to confess, but at this time he is still rejected by the girl. The main reason is that you currently do not meet her expectations. This In this case, some impulsive boys will choose to stalk them and ask why their confession was rejected. In the end, they will bore the girls and make them no longer friends.
Therefore, boys must be calm in this situation. First find out what is wrong with girls’ expectations, and then make targeted changes to the areas that girls dislike. Only then can they have a chance to reverse the situation. situation.
If a girl dislikes you for speaking awkwardly and always has some weird language habits. But you thought she thought you were too fat and unsightly, so she tried her best to lose weight. Losing weight is certainly a good thing, but if you don't change your speaking habits, then the girl will still feel the same about you as before, and your efforts will be completely in vain.
You may also feel discouraged because of this, thinking that no matter how hard you try, you can't win the girl's heart, and then give up. This is a pity. Obviously the ending can be easily changed, but we went in the wrong direction because we did not investigate the "enemy situation" well.
2. Can we still be friends if the confession fails?
Under normal circumstances, girls reject boys’ confessions Afterwards, there will be a period of defensiveness, fearing that the boy will not give up on her, so if the girl continues to look for her at this time, the girl may deliberately ignore her. This also causes many boys to feel that they cannot be friends after failing to express their love.
But in fact, this idea is completely wrong. If you want to continue to be friends after failing to express your love, it is very simple. When a girl says "I'm sorry" to you, just smile and tell her: " It doesn't matter, I think we are more suitable to be friends. "Should you chat with her next or continue chatting with her? There is no need to deliberately ignore her in order to "avoid suspicion". Usually girls will not ignore you. On the contrary, girls will think that you really care about this matter if you deliberately don't chat with her, and it means that you used to chat with her for a purpose, but now you change your attitude immediately when you see that the purpose cannot be achieved, then you may really care about it in the future. It’s not easy to remain friends.
Then if you have been rejected by a girl and have lost control of your emotions in front of her, is it impossible to save it?< /p>
Of course not, you can still continue to interact with a girl after being rejected, but you need to cool down for a few days without looking for her, leaving a buffer period for you to calm down and for the girl to forget about it for the time being.
After a few days, the impact of this incident on the girl will almost subside. If you want to ask her out for a date to eat, drink or play, you can just ask her out as usual. Of course, don't ask her out alone. Every time you ask her out, there should be a friend present, so that the nature of your invitation becomes a get-together with friends. (If you make an appointment alone, girls will think that you really don’t give up and are looking for opportunities to show your kindness, so they will almost always refuse)
Occasionally, find something that she can help with and ask her to help you. What is the purpose of doing this? A person who has a purpose for girls is always trying to please girls. He is trying his best to help girls. How can he deliberately trouble girls? So doing this is to further show girls that you value her. The sincerity of being an ordinary friend. After a period of time like this, the girl will feel that you really don't have that kind of thought for her anymore, and she will be able to look at you with a completely normal mind, and you will have the opportunity to re-establish attraction and pursue her again.
