In fact, failure to express your love does not mean that there is no chance for you. Maybe you did not give up easily after being rejected by the girl, and the girl continued to get along with you and began to accept you. Therefore, boys should not be too busy to refuse after failing to express their love, but you cannot reject a girl first and then continue to confess her love later. Instead, you should give her a few days of cold treatment and then see what to do. How long does it take to be cold if you fail to confess your love to a girl?
1. Get along coldly like friends
In fact, there are still many examples of becoming friends after failing to express love. At this time, if you want to be cold to the girl, you can treat her like a normal friend. , don’t pursue her as crazy as before you confessed your love. If you continue like that, you and she may not even be friends. I want to be more open-minded and find something I like to do instead of thinking about her all day long. It will be a very sad time after I confess my love. People still have to grow up and learn to be more open-minded. When you really become friends, then you can find a way to change from friends to lovers, if this is still possible.
If a girl refuses your confession and doesn’t even want to be friends with you, and she doesn’t reply to your messages at all, then You are completely hopeless, because friends also need interaction. Boys should also learn to look forward in relationships. If they miss her, they might be able to meet the right person next time.
2. Contact after the awkward period
There will definitely be an embarrassing period if you fail to express your love to a girl. During this period, try not to contact the girl, otherwise both of you will feel uncomfortable. Very embarrassing. If you still want to be friends with her, then contact her after this awkward period, but don't talk about any ambiguous topics, and don't do things to her that can easily arouse her defense. Treat her like a normal friend. No matter how well she plays with other boys or has a boyfriend, you can no longer be jealous. If you really can't let her go, then look for opportunities to pursue her again.
3. Don’t contact her frequently
Since a girl rejects you and avoids you, Just don't keep getting closer, and don't try to impress her with something. At this time, girls are actually very sensitive to all your actions. What you say and do may be interpreted by girls as that you still have lingering feelings for her. At this time, she will be wary of you, which is very important for you. There is a lot of resistance to pursuing her again. So don't contact her frequently, just greet her occasionally and let her know you exist. In this way, she will think of you first when she encounters a problem and slowly change her view of you.
Four. Improve yourself before contacting her
Girls will reject your confession because of your current situation Not attractive to her. thisAt that time, boys need to step back and improve themselves first. But the prerequisite for improvement is to know how to make a girl interested in you and how to make yourself attractive instead of making the girl lose interest in you. When you can attract a girl, you don't need to take the initiative at all if you want to chase her, and the girl can take the initiative to come to you.
