To confess to a girl is actually to put the decision-making power in the girl's hands. She may agree or refuse, and the one who suffers is the one who confessed to the girl. Of course it would be great if the girl accepts your confession, but what if the girl rejects your confession? How to do this?
What to do if a girl rejects your confession
1. Don’t be depressed and doubt yourself
After confessing to a girl and being rejected, most people will be angry at first, and then start to fall into Deep inferiority complex and self-doubt. You will question yourself, even if you have done this, why do girls reject you? Are you too bad? You will also deny yourself, no matter how much you give, it will be in vain, no matter how hard you try, it will be worthless, and your life will indeed be a failure. You will even doubt yourself, whether you are not worthy of being favored by girls like girls, whether you are not good at this or that.
Even if your confession is rejected, you should not be depressed, you should be happy. If it's like you said, you've worked hard and made changes, but she still rejects you, it only means that you two are really not suitable for each other. Because two people being together is a matter of two people, and one person cannot completely change the result by chasing after them all the time. Maybe it’s your outlook on life, maybe your background, maybe it’s your region, there are so many factors that determine whether you can be together.
In short, when you work hard to change her to the way she likes it, but the result still doesn't match, it can only mean that you two were not suitable from the beginning.
2. Learn to stop losses in time
In fact, you should be lucky when a girl rejects your confession, because the girl does not Hanging you, you won't hang on a tree like some brothers, hit your head and bleed, and go bankrupt.
You no longer have to hold yourself captive for a woman, fight a protracted war, and waste your youth in vain.
You just stay in place for three seconds and cry bitterly for a while. You can suit up and start again anytime and anywhere.
You will gain more opportunities to meet more outstanding girls, and maybe true love will come around the next corner.
3. The next time you confess your love, you need to meet three major conditions
Of course, being rejected once does not mean anything. Don’t make the same mistake next time you meet a girl you like! This confession needs to meet three major conditions. Once satisfied, you can confess.
The first condition is that you have a friendship with her, not an ordinary friendship, to the level of buddies.
You two can basically talk about anything. You point out that she has gained weight, darkened, and her eyebrows are crooked. She doesn’t mind at all. She speaks freely in front of you without any baggage. She sits cross-legged and sits cross-legged. Mouth is oily and quite relaxing.
The second condition is that she has feelings for youThe emotional fluctuations are not just pure care and support, but also all kinds of ups and downs.
You won’t be afraid that she will be angry with you and ignore you. You won’t keep pleasing her and licking her. If she makes you unhappy, you dare to say it. If she does something wrong, you dare to correct her. She has feelings for you. Happy, sad, angry, jealous, anxious, worried, all kinds of emotions.
The third condition is that you really know her well enough. It doesn’t matter what she says to you, you have to understand her from the side.
Her family background, daily arrangements, emotional relationships, consumption levels, likes and dislikes, her true attitude towards you, how well she knows you, how she evaluates you to others...
As long as these three conditions of friendship, emotion, and understanding are met, you can pay attention to the ambiguous window period. Once you feel that she especially likes to chat with you during a certain period of time, don't be afraid and ask her out to play quickly. Make an appointment two or three times, and every time she enjoys it, don't be timid, give her hints and test her attitude. If she is also ambiguous, don't be timid, confess directly and confirm the relationship.
