Did you know? When many boys are hesitant about whether to confess, girls are actually also afraid of being confessed. This is why we recommend that boys not to confess rashly, because not only boys will be embarrassed by rejection, but girls are also unwilling to face dislike. person’s confession.
Why are girls afraid of being confessed?
What value do friends provide? Emotional value!
What value do you need to provide as a girlfriend? Emotional value breeds value!
In other words, this girl only wants your emotional value and does not want to have sex with you. Once you confess your feelings, she has to make a decision and reject you.
After you are rejected, you will definitely not continue to provide her with emotional value. She will lose an opportunity to gain emotional value for free. Do you understand what I mean?
In fact, many spare tires are like this. Girls need the care, care and even material provided by the spare tire, so they never do it. If you reject the spare tires too hard, you will give those spare tires a hope that they may become more regular, and then continue to pay more. So in fact, the spare tire is to believe the cake that the girl draws for you. Some spare tires even draw the cake for themselves, and then give everything for this illusory cake.
Actually, to be honest, only girls need friends of the opposite sex, because as long as they can provide emotional value, girls can treat him as a friend. As for boys, if it's not for love, which boy is willing to waste time chatting with girls, be friends, and have sex with his brothers?
So I want to say something to all the boys, recognize the reality. See clearly whether it is the hope of love or an illusory pie, and stop your losses in time. A girl who really likes you will not keep you waiting for too long.
Precisely because of this, if you confess your love to a girl, it means that the positioning of both of you is inconsistent. I just want to treat you as My friend, if you want to be a lover, then the consequences must be to clarify the boundaries. Then the girl's rejection is definitely a basic action, but the other party is very likely to put all the previous friendship into love motivation that will eventually turn into a lover, and the result will fall short. After that, you won't have the mood to clarify the boundaries, so at least for a period of time, you won't be able to make it with your female friends.
But if a girl likes you, then she will definitely be happy to agree to you if you confess her love, so this premise is still very important.
