The person I love is not my lover... Love always makes people so sad, and sometimes so surprising - the girl you don't like likes you. When a girl you don't like confesses her love to you, how should you respond to her confession with high emotional intelligence? Try the following suggestions for refusing to confess her love.
1. Rejection with high emotional intelligence
1. Rejection should be straightforward
2. Reduce the frequency of contact and meetings
3. Be honest about your reasons (if the reason for refusing to confess is very hurtful, don’t say it)
4. Do it more for yourself Thinking (for people with strong empathy ability, they are very good at thinking from the perspective of others. It may be more difficult to be infected by other people's emotions and reject others. But the principle that cannot be violated is to follow one's own heart. The person you like must have the courage to say no when you confess)
The art of refusing to confess with high emotional intelligence is always inseparable from these keywords: respect, politeness, sincerity, and directness. Of course, I hope everyone can be confessed by the person they like.
2. Refuse to express your feelings with euphemistic sentences
1. You want to trick me again, right?< /p>
2. I have someone I like.
3. Why do you like me? But I only regard you as a sister!
4. I just want to be friends with you. As for lovers, I’d better give up.
5. I am born to like men, and then I will find a boyfriend to spend the rest of my life with.
6. I don’t like you as a boyfriend and girlfriend, and it is impossible to develop such a relationship in the future.
7. Thank you.
8. I don’t want to fall in love yet, and I won’t consider it.
9. In fact, I am a good person.
10. Sorry, I’m not interested in girls.
3. How to avoid unnecessary confessions
1. Keep a distance
When a girl you don't like confesses her love to you, it's actually because you gave you the opportunity to be ambiguous with each other, which makes this kind of thing possible.
To avoid this kind of thing happening, you need to keep an appropriate distance from the opposite sex you don’t like, and then they won’t express their feelings to you.
2. Fall in love
When you have a girlfriend, there won’t be so many girls coming to confess to you. After all, this situation goes against common sense.
3. Moderately mediocre
Girls misunderstand you because you are outstanding enough.Girls will generally be attracted to you and confess their feelings to you as soon as they get along with you, even if your behavior is not ambiguous at all. In this case, in order to avoid being confessed by a girl you don't like, you must either learn to refuse or know how to hide your talents.
